jonathan , 44,
Male seeking Female,
Dating StatusMaking conscious that which was once unconscious....feeling great!
Hobbies / Interests / ActivitiesSpacing Out, Girls and Fishing
Who I Would Like to MeetAbout me:rnWell, I'll do the best I can in such a limited space. I'm a gentle, quiet and sensitive man with a big heart. I don't like really loud environments too much...I feel a bit lost in them. I've had hard times in my life and easy times in my life; I guess that's all part of the grand scheme of things. I've been told by many people that I am insightful; life has put me through a wide range of experiences which I think helps me to be able to relate to all sorts of people. I listen more to the tone of voice people use when they talk, than to what they say with their words; I think it conveys much more meaning and truth, although I admit it can also be a downfall of mine because I can sometimes be practically oblivious to the the topic being discussed. I'm always working on it....constantly learning and refining myself. I can be very introverted at times and other times extroverted, I guess there's a range there for me; I suppose that there's a time and place for every mood. The woman I'd like to date should respect herself, take care of herself, and know herself well enough to know what she wants from a man; she should know herself, I think it's important. For me, she should definitely feel comfortable being "touchy and feely" when the moment moves her so. I've learned from experience that I tend to prefer a gentle, soft, and tender woman who expresses her love through touching and caressing; and lots of intimate eye contact. I'll admit that in some ways I'm still just a little boy inside looking for love....cute, huh? (maybe you don't think so, I don't know). I'm no mamma's boy, but I do need a little nurturing now and again. I like a woman to have a wide range of personality; a wide comfort range. Included in that range would be her capacity for comforting me when I need it. As most people do, I go through periods when I'm feeling vulnerable and I need comfort and nurturing; I suppose you could say that in these moments I need to feel even a bit mothered. However she would have the traits that the modern independent woman possesses also; I admire a woman with a mind of her own; her own thoughts, beliefs, opinions and personality. I want to be able learn from her; she is my life partner. This is naturally a two way street; I will absolutely support my women to the fullest capacity of my range of personality. I will give her everything I have to give. I am definitely one to return loving, touching favors as well as supportive, affirming, and validating ones. I will absolutely cherish the woman I love; I will give her back 10 fold all that she gives to me, instinctivly and without thought. I admit that I am a victim of human male evolution...I am open minded, but I admit, physical beauty IS important to me; It's not everything; but I usually have to be initially physically attracted to the person for it to work. I generally tend to prefer "girlie-girl" type women to "tom-boy" types; I love sexy dresses, subtle perfumes, and beautiful, curvy, womanly bodies; I am what I am!!! However....what I am is also a man with a good mind and soul and open to at least trying virtually all possibilities. That being said...please give me a try. I'd love an opportunity to get to kow you.
Favorite MusicThe Mahavishnu Orchestra
Favorite TV ShowsBlind Date, The Daily Show, Jackass, Fox Business
Favorite MoviesThe Matrix, Star Wars
Favorite BooksI Ching, Man and His Symbols, Jung
Favorite QuotesI'll be back
Where You Were RaisedMassachusetts
Favorite Foodcheese cake
Favorite PlacesPortland, Maine
Life GoalsTo be truly happy