Holly , 58,
Female seeking Female,
More About MeI need someone who can be up front and totally honest with me. I love the truth. I am so accepting and understanding when I know what I'm dealing with. I'm flexible, but not when the story changes over time. That is what broke up my relationship. She apparently didn't have the confidence to just say the truth. It wasn't over because of what the truth was ~~ it ended because she couldn't stay honest.
Political AffiliationI hate to admit it, but I am a highly educated, highly intelligent gal who is apathetic about politics. I defer to those who follow it carefully and I trust to tell me who to vote for.
Who I Would Like to MeetThe ability to be self-depricating is important because my past gal could NOT take any joke about herself. That's crazy to me. My happiness is dependent on banter -- fun one-liners thrown back and forth, especially about our own silly topics of preference. I love to be playful with people, whether it is the checker at the grocery, or sitting next to me at a game or something. I am more outgoing than most and know who MOST every time, will be playful back and enjoy the encounter, although they are too shy to have started the conversation. I need someone who isn't against baby-talking to each other on occassion.
Favorite MusicCountry, Classical, 70s Rock, The Oldies
Favorite Quotes"The best things in life aren't things."
Where You Were RaisedSan Antonio, Texas
Others NoticeMy smile and dimples. I am funny and very down to earth. No pretentiousness.
Skills/TalentsI enjoy creating very cool things that matter, not just stupid crafts. I am a amazing organizer. I have interpreted for the deaf using American Sign Language in Alaska, I have been a high school principal and for the last six years, a ranch hand. I can enjoy most anything as long as I am dealing with truthfulness.
Favorite Foodspanish olives (pimento stuffed green olives)
Favorite Placesgay cruise, gay friendly locals other that just gay bars, am touchy-feely person who tries to be respectful of parents choosing when to explain things to their children at their chosen time, and therefore, rare PDAs in general population, but it takes all of my restraint. I love being able to be arm in arm or hold hands.
Subjects You Think AboutI wish people wouldn't try to front or lie when I can see right through it because then I have to pretend I believe them and smile so I don't hurt their feelings. I would rather hear that you were feeling lazy and didn't want to do (whatever) than that you were too busy. It is endearing for someone to trust you with their core truth. It feels good and outweighs whatever didn't get done.
Life GoalsBeing available to visit my children occassionally, enjoy daily banter and have no drama
SecretThat I am so low-maintainance and very easy to please. A touch or a smile gets me high. Never needed any substance for that.