Dewhanie , 25,
Female seeking Male,
More About MePeople are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that's bull! Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they're afraid to feel? Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they're wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It's all in how you carry it. That's what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you're letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain. Throughout life you will meet one person who is unlike any other. This person is one you could forever talk to. They understand you in a way that no one else does or even could. This person is your soul mate, your best friend. Don't ever let them go! I'd like to be that woman!
Hobbies / Interests / ActivitiesMy kids!!!!!, Volleyball, Marching band
Political Affiliationno answer
Who I Would Like to MeetI want my first date to guarantee a second date!!! I think the best first date for me is one where the man is not pushy, he shows a true interest in me personally, flirting is fine, yet not overboard, and also he is capable of showing a general interest in things that I'm interested in.... For instance, If you have talked and he is aware you are interested in viewing the stars, he will go that extra little length to arrange something so that you can view them and teach him a few things you may know! Basically that he shows an interest in you in a way other than a sexual one. And if a man understands that some women need time to dial in there feelings since we are more emotional human beings, and men usually are more on a visual and sexual level, due to there natures... if they can slow down and let nature take its course they will be overly delighted when it does finally happen... I personally don't like to feel like a sexual object to men. I like to be romanced, and I like to feel like the man is more interested in me than for an evening in the sack. If that is what he is interested in he should be outright and just say so. Then everyone involved knows where they stand and the necessary choices can be made.
Favorite MusicR&B, hip - hop, Country
Favorite TV ShowsAmerican Idol, Bachelor, Bachelorette, Amercia's next top model, Americas best dance crews, AFV
Favorite Movieshorror, Comedy, Romance, Mystery Science Theater 3000
Where You Were RaisedCorpus Christi, TX (Flour Bluff)!!!
Others NoticeMy dimple OR eyes
Favorite Placeshawaii (home town)
Friday or Saturday Nights IOut && about
Life GoalsGive my kids a better life than what I had
SecretI'd have to really be interested in a man to tell him or anyone my secrets!!!