your sexy soulmate , 42,
Female seeking Male,
Tulsa,
OK
Dating Statusa simple love
More About MeHello everyone, i am a single black adult female, mother of 3 children, two of them are of adult age, and 1 is 13. My eldest is deceased as of 4 years ago, and i miss him dearly. I am seeking a mature, single, unattached male. Someone who respects women in the utmost. as they would their dear mother, not like your mother but same as your mother. I have been single for the latter part of 2 years, just tryna get myself back into life after losing my son who was tragically murdered. But all i can say to that is that God is Good and He makes No mistakes. The only way i can see fit to do so is by praying that the right gentleman comes along and sweep me off my itty bitty feet. I have never been married, not for the lack of trying, but only because that right guy hasn't seen fit to show his face. I only plan to be married once in my life, and when that day finally arrives i hope that he is ready to spend the entirety of his life, because i DO NOT believe in nor will i ever get a divorce.(maybe that's y noone will marry me, too many divorces in the world) I am a child of God. So therefore, marriage is for life. If you have been divorced, so sorry to hear that. Better Luck next time. i hope. Anyway back to me and what i want..... I want a man who is trustworthy and honest, someone who is ready to commit to one woman, i don't like to share and I just won't do it. I do not believe in cheating, i believe if a person is gonna cheat or even have it in their head that they might then they should break it off with the person that is going to wind up hurt. because in the long run the one that is doing the cheating, reality will always come back and bite you in the ass. and dealing with me i bites HARD. I am willing to accept a few mistakes because you know after all, no one is truly 100% perfect. even i know this. Im not looking for any friends, playtoys or anymore children, i have raised mine and i don't need a childish ass adult portraying as if he is mature cause the truth almost always comes to light. I would like to have someone who is somewhat intelligent, who can hold a conversation without getting all uptight and upset, no matter what the subject. I have been in violent abusive relationships and THAT SH%$ I AIN'T TAKING anymore. I just recently entered the doors of the 40 year olds, and frankly its quite lovely and im hoping someone will find me so they could enjoy the rest of my time here on God's Glorious Earth with me. I know that i have said alot and its quite a bit to take in but if you think you can handle me, and what i have to offer with you returning the same love and tenderness in the same manner then please feel free to stop and browse and see if you are interested,,,,leave me a message, and promise i will get back with ya. So have a blessed and peaceful day. GoD Bless
Political Affiliationconservative
Who I Would Like to Meetsensible, sensitive, confident,(not too arrogant. someone honest, true to themselves. grown and sexy. independent, but also wants to be taken care of. someone who is willing to love as well as to be loved.
Favorite Musicold skewl r and b
Favorite TV Showsany investigative reports
Favorite Moviesnone
Favorite Bookswaiting to exhale and a book caLLED "UNconditionally single"
Where You Were Raisedprojects
Others Noticemy smile and my dimples....
Skills/Talentsmany
Favorite Foodanything dead, seasoned and cooked properly, lol..no but seriously!!!!
Favorite Placesto eat anywhere, to park live bands, caribbean islands, all of them!!!!!
Subjects You Think Aboutmy children, my life, and my lifelong soulmate; whomever that may be...i'm still searching for him....
Friday or Saturday Nights Ihome curled up with a gooooodddd book.
Life Goalssharing them only with my soulmate....sorry
Secretif i tell you then it wouldn't be a secret any longer, then we'd definitly be lifelong soulmates.