Tamala , 51,
Female seeking Male,
Dating StatusFriends First; Looking for my Best Friend
More About MeI"m special because God made me that way. I have a beautiful heart and I'm also told I'm that way in my looks. I have been badly hurt more times that I care to think of and I have a wall up until I know I can trust you. I'm tired of being betrayed and deceived. I love people and I'm very family oriented. I love to laugh and be beautiful for the man in my life. That is my goal. I'm wise and smart in many ways because I've screwed up enough to know that "hey if I keep doing what I've been doing" then, "I will keep getting what I'm getting." So I've had a drink a tall order and it isn't easy; but I'm changing the way I approach things but the key is to not get involved or be around those type of people that provoke me anymore. I have a great friend who is a therapist and I was also seeing a professional therapist. I'm a nice girl with a rough edge; but I'm all woman and can sit at the table with anyone. Peace.
Political AffiliationAlthough Politics are a big part of what dictates our welfare, etc,; I have a hard time knowing what to think because they all come across as deceitfulness. I know it is our duty to pay attention. They are all greedy, contradictive and hard to understand.
Where You Were RaisedMilitary daughter...in many states.
Favorite FoodGeeeze - Depends on my mood. I don't eat fried foods. I like all types from grilled tuna & steak; chicken and kabobs to Asian, Mexican; etc. I eat a lot of protein and carbs cuz I work out. I love to eat healthy and only proportions. I've lost 12 lbs in 2 months and plan to loose about 10 more...so there. :)
Favorite PlacesI'm going to Germany next month (March) and I love the great outdoors of any kind whether it's beaches, mountains or bike rallys. I love camping out and I love eating out too. I love a man to cook with me.
Life GoalsI would like to have horses and my own motorcycle some day. I want land with an log cabin or old rustic house on it. I love the country. I love the trees. I'm just starting to invest in my retirement. I know it's a bit late, but the economy forced me to live off what I did have. Now I'm wiser...so that is also a future goal. I would love to eventually find that exclusive other and also be married some day. I love waking up next to a warm naked body.