Irma Aguilar , 58,
Male seeking Female,
Who I Would Like to MeetThen I was 12, I remember holding hands with this girl--I want to say, 'Patty,' but I'm guessing here--and something about the way she held hands was just... wrong. Our fingers didn't line up right. You know how when you grab someone's hand, the fingers sort of automatically slide into place, your thumb next to their thumb, second finger next to their second finger? Simple, right? Not a lot of ways to screw that up. This girl did. I think what she did was slide her fingers in too early so they were all out of sync with mine. (I'm sitting here, holding hands with myself to try to explain this to you.) Okay...here's what it is: I like my pinky to be on the outside. And she started one finger too soon, so her pinkie was on the outside, and my pinkie was smushed up between her third and fourth fingers. Now, I'm not saying she's a bad person. But the second we held hands, I knew she wasn't for me. We just didn't fit. And I knew I couldn't explain it to her, either. Because, the way I figure, there are two types of people: those who get it and those who don't. If they get it, there's nothing to explain, and if they don't, there's no point in trying to explain. They don't get it. Move on. But I remember thinking that if your'e going to be with someone, you should find someone who gets it. And someone who fits someone who know what it takes to love and someone who know what she wants in terms of love.
Where You Were RaisedRock Away NJ
Others NoticeMy Hair
Favorite FoodI love spaghetti with meat sauce and salad and garlic bread
Favorite Placesseveral weeks in Israel with friends, looking forward to going back. I did a whirlwind trip in Italy a couple year ago - 3 days in Rome, 2 in Florence and 1 day in Venice. Next time I will spend a week in each place to really experience it. Someday I hope to take a family vacation to Scotland.
Friday or Saturday Nights IHome resting
Life Goalsto never be content with where I am in my relationship with God... "Not that I have already obtained it or have already become perfect, but I press on so that I may lay hold of that for which also I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus. Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of it yet; but one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and reaching forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus." Phil. 3:12-14.