Michael Lesem , 49,
Male seeking Female,
Dating StatusSuccessful, comfortable Professional who guaranteed to make you feel fulfilled
More About MeI am a closet perfectionist who tends to be self critical. I am a good boss but too harsh on my sons. I am generous but not highly emotional or touchy-feely. It took a long time to rein in my rightous indignation. Anger energies me and helps me get things done properly and quickly. Virtually all the women I have been with have been 15-20 yrs younger than me since my first wife passed away 15 yrs ago. I remarried in 2007 a woman I had been with 6-7 yrs. In 2010 she unexpectedly developed mania, lost her job, became pregnant with another man and moved to Canada. Never really got treated. I figure as long as I don't marry a significant other will remain healthy. I think I would remarry if I met right person.
Who I Would Like to MeetShe has to be smart, easy going and take life as it comes. She has to be younger and youthful in her outlook and take good care of herself. She would be faithful to me as I would be to her. Not promiscuous or exhibitionistic but truly enjoys sex and knows how to keep it interesting in much same way as I do. Someone who became my sign other I would want to be with her alot but respect her time to be with others. I would want us to grow together. I would want someone who relishes the idea that she is the glue that holds a family together and is the "color" in her man's eye. I would want her to know how much I appreciate her every day and I would want her to appreciate what I would do for her each day. Mutual respect, understanding and appreciation.
Favorite QuotesChurchill's Speech just prior to The Battle For Britain-We shall fight the hun on our beaches , fields and cities but we will never,never,never give up.
Where You Were RaisedTexas
Others NoticeThey think I am a little bit arrogant, well off and smart and maybe a jerk. Most women say I am nice looking. Also should gain 5-10 lbs but I am not too thin.
Skills/TalentsI am passionate about my profession-treating severe mental illness and pretty good at it. I can be a gourmet chef. I can process B&W, Color film and work with digital. I have a "photographic eye"
Favorite FoodSkillet Fried Chicken
Favorite PlacesMayan Riviera Botique Hotels like The Tide, occassional clothing optional resorts for a day in same area, VanCouver, Whistler, Wash. DC-Du Pont Circle, The Mall
Subjects You Think AboutLife is more random than I thought. Finding things to appreciate as we enter the different stages of life, maintaining youthful outlook and lifestyle.
Friday or Saturday Nights IOut of town, working on filling out one of these online dating profiles, at tennis court, on the internet.
Life GoalsLive well is best revenge. We are all flawed so leave the judgemental attitude out of most relationships. Make my life's goal to focus on others or just one person or one charitable cause. Maintain integrity and best values still tradition values
SecretI own a pub. I cannot bear to watch any form of animal cruelty. I am well respected in my field, meet challenges head-on but do not expect me to approach a woman I do not know and ask her out.