philip herklotz , 37,
Male seeking Female,
Palos Verdes Peninsula,
CA
More About MeI am a devoted and faithful man, trustworthy, and empathetic. I have a conscience and usually make decisions that will ethically work out for every one. I am funny as hell, but very imaginative in the bedroom and keep you interested in so many ways. I am from a childhood that wasnt so great as a matter of fact its not something I like to think about but it hasnt stopped the desire in me to have that positive peaceful man in me from a background that had this around, so I know about struggle, pain, heartache, and hoplessness, and have seen the most ugliest of versions in my face even lived in it daily for so long I thought I would never change. But here I am still strong tattooed and all, smiling looking forward to so many things and the most wanted dream on my list is to find you and make at least the most important dream no more a wish.
Political AffiliationPolitics make me sick and so do politicians they are all full of deficants, and theyre nothing but con men playing a game.
Who I Would Like to MeetA woman that is considerate, loving, understanding, and not judgemental, because you can not be a judge of someones life unless you been exactlly thru what the things that basically trapped you to go thru what you did and now you see later the things you should of did. I need a lady that can put me first well the children actually then me because Its where I will put you no questions asked, but my kids are always first. Now I want a faithful woman because I am seriously faithful there is nothing wrong with promising yourself to someone and staying to it but if you cant or decide you want to walk just tell me so, I will have more respect for you if you tell me the truth no matter how much it hurts, I may not like your answer but at least i have to respect you for your honesty and that means more than anything. People seem to tell others what they want to hear for superficial selfish controlling reasons not because they care because if you care you will be honest to say where you are in this thing , I want to look forward to seeing you so I like a woman that needs me in certain ways like love, emmotions, physical things, and heartfelt things, I want to be your best friend, lover and husband or boyfriend not your boyfriend and someone else your friend because then theres always something heavy going on that I wont know. I have been thru the most aweful amount of drama and chaotic relationships because of being with women for the wrong reasons or to easily believing their stories and giving my trust because I believe in never putting upon another what someone else has done, unless its too obvious then its the answer. I want a woman that wants to program with me, hang out and not do this every 6 or week stop by have sex split and so on and the only one that knows were a couple is me, even though shes said everyone knows but still 6 months later you still havent met all these numbers and names in that phone book that seem to call and cut you off 4 times a week, been thru it and there is nothing someone can possibly do to me that hasnt had my ugly share of cheating ,infidelity, and pain but I have caloused up and can move on looking for the right woman to call my name, depend on me, trust in me, and believe when I say You are my everything.
Favorite BooksMy Own Book
Where You Were Raisedsan pedro, ca
Others Noticemy looks
Favorite Foodrice pudding
Favorite Placeshawaii
Friday or Saturday Nights Iat home lately
Life Goalsto finish my book, and open my e cig shop