BLEEDINGHARTEST , 45,
Male seeking Female,
Carmel,
IN
More About MeART REVOLUTIONARY
Political AffiliationNA
Who I Would Like to MeetAs cheesy as it sounds, no matter how I try to define what true love is I keep coming back to the "alligator guy" and his wife. Why? Because these two had a PURPOSE together. Why is a purpose important? Because after the cruise is over, the restaurant is closed, the car has developed some rust, the kids have cleaned out your bank account, your skin has hints of wrinkles, you will need something else that creates the cohesion between you and that person across the room who has different body parts, and a different mind than you. I call that need a PURPOSE.n nA purpose will sustain the frequent and sometimes challenging gaps and voids that the unsolicited seasons bring. A purpose will galvanize the energy that has sometimes eroded because of the strains and trials of wrongly chosen occupations, or decisions in life that perhaps chiseled away at our self esteem, creating hardships and pitfalls at a particular stage in our lives. A PURPOSE TOGETHER WILL ALWAYS RESPARK AND REKINDLE THE FIRE THAT MANY COUPLES LOSE because they were not naturally "alligned" from the beginning. n nA purpose together not only accents and completes spiritual and divine principals of the world, but I would also guess makes everyone around you better too. People cannot ever deny that there is something very special about seeing a couple who are enjoying each other's company- laughing, and not giving a damn what anyone else thinks about them verses sitting at a restaurant, looking around....miserable....waiting for the world to end.n nSteve Irwin and his wife certainly appeared ( at the surface ) to have the natural cohesion that we all want. Were these two really this symbiotic together when the cameras were off? It's hard to believe that they were miserable....I could be wrong, but I don't think so. n nAlong with a purpose in life I think all couples and marriages need LAUGHTER. If you do not have laughter in your marriage or relationship YOUR DAYS ARE NUMBERED. TAKE MY WORD ON THIS. Sex, money,traveling, and all the other contrived notions of trying to adhere to the true principalities of intimacy are nothing short of counterproductive if laughter is not present.n nLaughter is something that you cannot decode with your soul or your intellect. When someone makes you laugh, it usually is a product of mirroring your own spirit and personality, which a natural state of living DEMANDS. The body, soul, and every cell in your body and immmune system demand it too. n nIf you think about anyone that you keep close to you in this life, and HAVE kept close to you for many many years, you will probably find that 95% of the people you are still in relationships with ( via friends or family ) are the ones who MAKE YOU LAUGH. n n If you are not, you are cheating YOURSELF ( and the other person accross the room ) out of an authentic, fun and spirit filled life. That's just my opinion....I could be wrong. :P In conclusion, if you do not have a PURPOSE or LAUGHTER in your relationships, you don't have much, and your days are numbered. It is probably the BEST FOR ALL CONCERNED that you go inside your soul, pray to god, INTROSPECT, and SELF-ACTUALIZE what your TRUE NEEDS are.
Where You Were RaisedHERE
Others NoticeI DONT KNOW
Friday or Saturday Nights ICOFFEE SHOP DANCING
Life GoalsTO BE HAPPY