Barbara , 63,
Female seeking Male,
Dating StatusStill Wishin'
More About MeMaybe I approach this differently. I am less interested in what you like to do for fun -hopefully we will have some of those things in common, than what kind of relationship you are looking for. I have learned that if you fill in the blank with 'casual', you probably mean it. I keep going. What I am looking for is anything but casual. If you say 'long term', I keep reading. I'm looking for nothing less than the love affair of my life- a partner who desires me with him whenever possible, not just when all the other 'important' things on his to-do list allow time. So many guys bury themselves in work and busyness. That really doesn't work for me. Building a relationship takes time. Love requires leisure. I believe in putting my partner first, central in my life, and I need the same. I think many kinds of people can blend. It's all about bringing out the best in each other. Many of us have open wounds from previous relationships. Healing takes place slowly sometimes, but surely if you walk through the fire. I'm searching for the man who has not been mortally wounded, who is still able to take a chance on love. Some days, I fear all of our divorces have made that nearly impossible. If you still believe in love, and you have the courage to enter the dance once again, let's talk.
Hobbies / Interests / ActivitiesGardening, reading, theater, musicmusicmusic
Who I Would Like to MeetWe are all so differently mixed...I'd rather not limit myself by lists.
Favorite MusicJames Taylor, Kenny Loggins, Loreena McKennitt, Chris Botti, Bruce Cockburn, Faith Hill, Andrea Bocelli, Gloria Estefan, David Crosby, Pat Methany, Lyle Lovett, Stevie Nicks, Aretha, Paula Cole, Shelby Lynn, Ottmar Liebert....
Favorite TV ShowsCNN
Favorite BooksBefore You Know Kindness ~Chris Bohjalian
Favorite Quotes'Let me not to the marriage of true mind admit impediments....
Where You Were RaisedLong Island
Others NoticeI wish I knew
Favorite FoodChocolate... what else.
Favorite PlacesThe beach, the forest, a dance floor, church, a pizza parlor, a diner
Can't Live WithoutAffection
Friday or Saturday Nights IMost often home, with a good movie.
Life GoalsGrowing old with a sweet man