Santiago , 46,
Male seeking Female,
Dating StatusRandom, eclectic, intense, fun, curious.
More About MeI am drawn to unusual characters who love fun, are sharp-witted, have warm hearts, and are quirky or curious. I love off-beat experiences, deep connection, playfulness, and doing things outside. I'm a bit mischievous, often tossing off unexpected remarks, and love making people laugh. I'm considerate, warm, perceptive, caring, and tune in to people well.nnI am relaxed and carefree sometimes and can get stressed or feel overwhelmed other times. I am gradually learning to manage my expectations. I’m often charismatic, insightful, unusual, curious, and keep my home world fairly organized. I'm athletic, ride my mountain bike pretty regularly, and play some tennis. And these days I'm into running. And have played and love Ultimate frisbee, soccer, and volleyball.nnI’m a drummer. I love to shake it on the dance floor. I dig hiking in the woods, biking, walking the park, exploring bigger cities, or sitting on my porch. I have a cat and a cockatiel bird. I love dining out or cooking in together, and I eat mostly healthy stuff... but I so lack creativity in the kitchen and am bored with my food.nnI'm attracted to intelligence, warmth, playfulness, honesty, humor, openness, beauty and sexiness, spunk, fitness, philosophical and heart-felt discussions, and radical liberalism. I’m drawn to personalities of quiet shyness and confident boldness. I love gentleness and humility as well as wild daring personality.nnI intend to only pursue relationships with people who are up front about what they want and are comfortable saying how they feel. I am looking for a ravishing, caring woman who wants to share deep conversation, tenderness, and exploration (emotional and geographic). I want a woman who loves nature and hearing live music; who can be open and honest. A soulful beauty with heart.
Hobbies / Interests / ActivitiesPlaying music (drum), chess, tennis, biking, chess, hiking, getting outside, playing with my cat. I love some board games and some card games.
Political Affiliationliberal but no affiliation
Who I Would Like to MeetI guess I pretty much covered that in my previous diatribe. ;)
Favorite MusicMy taste in music is extremely broad but very selective within each genre, but including alternative rock, funk, soul, jazz, classic rock, avante-garde stuff, experimental stuff, some classical, some reggae, and lots more.
Favorite MoviesComedy, documentary, drama, some light romantic stuff, some sci-fi.
Favorite BooksWriting project listings.
Skills/TalentsCreative writing. Drumming, when I'm on. Hucking a frisbee. Chasing things with speed. Being a smartass. Listening. Caring. Connecting deeply.
Favorite FoodHmmm. Thai veggie curry.
Favorite PlacesWaterfalls, the Redwoods, the coast...
Life GoalsTo increase my happiness and the happiness of those I encounter. To love. To learn about myself and about how to help people.