James William Oliver , 28,
Male seeking Female,
More About MeIm honest, intelligent, articulste, funny, loyal, and have aleways been very mature for my age. I was raised by my grandparents and taught to show respect to all, and not be judgemental. Im empathetic and a natural listener, protective of those whom I love and respect. Im generous almost to a fault, and enjoy making people smile and helping those out who truely need the help. Partying and being wild is all but behind me now, after getting diabetes and having some complications thereafter. Im a survivor in the broadest terms, and have been through a few close calls with death in my life, so I intimately appreciate life more than most. Im always searching and learning about new things and pick up on things and concepts real quickly... I love music, poetry, and expression in general. Ive written poetry for years and also work as an activist with the homeless and poor. Im an open book, and only talk about what i know or have lived through... im not a typical male, who is dog in the sense that he will sleep with whoever, whenever, wherever. I have high standards and dont comprimise them for much.
Hobbies / Interests / ActivitiesWriting and Creating Art, Poetry and Music, Graffiti Art, Physics, Cosmology, Astronomy, Philosophy of mind, Comedy Anything, Romance, Bdsm
Political AffiliationLiberal democrat, or non conformist
Who I Would Like to Meetcompassion. Im done with premadonnas and girls who must always be the senter of attention, and think that their life outshines others interests and opinions. Shallow narrow-minded immature, conservative, and dishonest are the words I never wanna ever hear agian when used in connection with the sort of girls I like to be around. She has tp be able to see the inner part of people and their personalities for what they are, and not be ignorant of the culture, society, and world we are living in. Innocent, shy, or quiet are always very cute characteristics, and a woman who wears glaswses can make my heart melt just by smiling and batting her eyelashes at me.... Im a sucker for those sorta girls I just described but am not predjudice agienst any type, race, other superficial attributes. Im picky about body types and romantically am only attracted to girls who are feminine and petite, at least my size or smaller. Im not shallow in the slighest, but am only attracted to those who attract me and it just so happens o be that it falls into that criteria
Favorite MusicUnderground hip hop, Classic rock, RAP & HIP HOP Music, JAZZ HIP HOP R&B BIG BAND GOSPEL, Motown
Where You Were RaisedConnecticut
Others NoticeMy eyes, voice, body, wit, sense of humor, intelligence
Favorite FoodPizza, Kalbasi, Burgers, Fries, Baked Potatoes, Pasta, just regular guy food.... and oohh yeah Cheesecake!
Favorite PlacesThe Beach, Boardwalk, Peabody Museum, Downtown Green, Toads Place, Library
Friday or Saturday Nights IProbably at home since I have stopped partying and being crazy
Life GoalsI wanna be a psychiatrist or therapist, if not a social worker or homeless outreach activist. Id love to concentrate more on my writing or poetry but those have always been just hobby's, I wanna find the right girl who is open minded and has some of the same qualities and interests and then settle down at some point