Please check the FAQ below. If assistance is still needed, please click here.
The best way to choose who to date is to upgrade and use the 'date' button. Anyone you click 'date' for will be set up with you on a date if you are both online. Otherwise, SpeedDate matches you for live chat dates based on your preferences and the preferences of other people on the system. If you adjust your preferences, you can impact the age and location of the people with whom we set you up.
Here are 4 ways to attract more attention on SpeedDate.
Profile settings identify your gender and that of your desired date.
Hmmmm.... I did that, but I'm still presented with dates that don't match the sex I've specified in my profile. What next?
It's likely that the other member's gender is inaccurately set. Let them know!
Premium members receive the following benefits. We are also adding new features to help you meet new people every day!
For all billing and charges issues related to premium subscription, please submit a ticket using the link to the left. If you need more assistance, please login to your profile.
SpeedDate is an easy and fast way to meet new people. Once you login and click Start, we set you up with people for 3-minute online SpeedDates using your instant messaging or webcams/live audio. If you like your date, vote yes to add them to your buddy list. In between dates we show you profiles of people we think would be compatible with you. Send winks and flirts, and add people to your chat buddy list. Get to know your buddies, and when you are ready, go on a real date!
One way to get dates much faster is to upgrade your account. Premium members are always at the front of the line to get more dates faster! Also, please invite your friends to build the SpeedDate community!
Three minutes is the perfect amount of time to make a first impression. If it is a positive impression and you match, you can spend as long as you like getting to know each other after. If you don't match, three minute SpeedDates allow you time to meet lots of other people.
You are allowed to end the dates early by clicking 'end date', but we encourage you to stick around for the full three minutes so your date has time to make enough of an impression for you to decide whether there is any chemistry. Also, people are less likely to end dates on you if you use a webcam.
We want everyone to feel comfortable using SpeedDate. Although it is rare, if your date is acting truly offensive, press the report button. We will examine the situation and potentially ban your date. You can also block and delete members, even after you have matched with them or added them to your buddy list. Since you can communicate anonymously through SpeedDate, only give out your contact information when you are ready. Of course, we encourage our members to use common sense in deciding to give out their contact information.
Continue to chat with your matches and buddies for as long as you want. When you are ready, go on a real date! We love to hear success stories from our members. If you met someone you really like on SpeedDate, let us know.
We welcome ideas from our members. Just click submit a request to the left to submit a suggestion.