Real Dates in Real-Time

How It Works
Chat and find chemistry. It's that simple.


Our philosophy is to make dating fast, fun, and easy. Let our real-time matching technology take care of all the hard work.

All you need to do is have fun chatting with singles!

Getting started only takes a few minutes – here's how it works



Fill out your basic profile information.


Answer a few quick questions about yourself and upload a photo
Start chatting on 5–minute Speeddates

We'll immediately introduce you to singles through 5-minute live chats or "SpeedDates". Chat with as many singles as you'd like on unlimited SpeedDates.

Immediately connect with singles.


With over 13 million members and thousands more joining daily, this gives you endless opportunities to find the right person, faster.



Tips for Starting an Online
Dating Conversation



Make it personal.


While current events can be good conversation topics, you're more likely to get a positive response if the comment is personal about him/her.



Be unique!

Don't start a conversation online with open-ended introductions that don't stand out. Stay away from phrases like "Hey there", "How are you doing", or cheesy pickup lines. Think of a bar scene, and a crowd of multiple potential suitors vying for the same woman/man's attention. You want the person to remember you because first impressions are everything.



Don't be shy!

If you like someone, be the first to reach out! Don't miss an opportunity to get to know someone you're interested in.


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